Your child is not a part of you but a person, that stands alone and is worthwhile with her own values. Therefore, to decide for another independent creature what is perspective and what is not; what to do in life and what is better to avoid; which university to choose; what profession to work at; what schedule to follow means to take on oneself a huge burden of responsibility for not only one's success but also for the success of the other person.
Are you really ready for that?